You’re not a mind reader. If they wanted to go to bed earlier cuz they got up early they should have told you that. Being a little late doesn’t justify their reaction in my opinion. If they want you home by x time they need to clearly request that. Even if they request that it doesn’t mean you have to agree. They shouldn’t be setting a curfew for you, imo.

Yeah maybe you should ask what your partner wanted, either dishes or sleep. But again you’re not a mind reminder. I would say it’s more of them to tell you clearly what they want. In this case if they wanted you to do dishes or go to bed early.

Overall your partner doesn’t sound like they are communicating healthly.

It’s trump so more likely Art of the Shart