

Make sure the couples therapist understands ADHD and doesn’t assign blame for ‘not trying hard enough’. Being told I just needed to pay more attention and anticipate what my wife wanted was the most frustrating experience I have ever had and I walked out.
Glad my wife didn’t listen to that therapist. Eventually we worked it out between us to where she understands that asking about something I half remember means I’m trying instead of not caring enough.
Nurgle would be proud.